It appears the one giving the advice, is the one now in need of it. 

The epitome of the phrase: “take my advice, I won’t use it.”

Thankfully, sleep always makes things better.
 

have a wonderful spring break, guys!!

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choch:

You Really Got A Hold On Me

Answers up from yesterday, y’all!

Thank you as always and keep asking away.

A message from Anonymous


I got a really ugly haircut, almost below my shoulders. I feel so ashamed and ugly. Please help me give advice :( xoxo

Do you mean above your shoulders? Either way, I’m sorry you think your haircut’s bad. But honestly, every time you try a new style, if you can wear it with confidence, everyone will think it’s cool. It’s a proven fact of high school. How else can people get away with wearing such ridiculous clothes, or crazy hair? It’s all about confidence. Nobody will know you don’t like it if you can wear it with a smile on your face. With that being said, do whatever it takes to make your hair a little better. Go out and buy some awesome headbands, or maybe put a streak of red in or dye the tips like you’ve been dying to do (pun intended). Spoil yourself, you deserve to…and then, you can wear your new hair with confidence. And trust me, it’ll grow out faster than you think. Especially with the oncoming warm weather, it’ll be long again by summer break. Make sure to keep your hair clean and healthy, and wash it constantly. Also, this might not seem to make any sense because you got it cut too short, but trim your hair regularly, it doesn’t have to be much, but keeping away split ends will also help it grow faster. 

Body language and confidence is what really matters when it comes to personal style. If you can use that, or fake it, nobody will think twice about your haircut. And trust me on this, it never looks as bad as you think it does. We’re all much too hard on ourselves as teens….
Best of luck to you my friend, may you have lots of confidence and fast growing hair. You’re beautiful! <3 

A message from lotzamatzah


Hi Hailey! This is really awesome that you have this! You're such a nice person. I even cried when I read the birthday card that you wrote me... lol. mkay, i love you. <3 stay gold ponyboy!!

aw alsdjfwealsdjf :333  i’m glad i could make you happy (i hope it was tears of happiness)!! i love you too lily, you’re the best!!! i’ll stay gold fo sho (golden haired that is) <333

I’m always here.

In the least creepy way possible….but please. If you need to talk to someone, I’m here. My mind is open, so is my heart, I’ll never judge you for what you have to say. If you just need to let it out but you don’t know where or to who, you can most certainly do so here. That is all. 

kari-shma:

Caño Cristales (by www.fredygomez.com)

kari-shma:

Caño Cristales (by www.fredygomez.com)

ask away, also all answers are up from yesterday!!